julianop
I'm also in the market for a group calendaring system
Look at groupware, egroupware or the horde add on's, take your pick.
Using the external google calendar offerings is also a viable online option & does not need to be supported on sme.
any words from the wise old warriors would be welcome.
Do not change config files directly.
Learn about the templating system, and how it creates the config files.
Do not change template fragment files directly, always create custom template fragments.
Learn about the db commands as many (not all) settings can be configured with a db command.
Realize that the server manager is the GUI control panel for sme and that all changes made there interact with many different functional systems within sme eg on a gateway server, enabling a secure mail server component will also open the appropriate port in the firewall.
If you cannot do something in server manager, look to see if there is a db command available. If not then you need to create custom templates.
Read the manuals two or three times
Read the Developers Guide (manual)
Read the FAQ
Read the Howto pages as there are many useful tutorials and additional information articles that are not in the manual eg db commands, db command tutorial and so on.
Read the Contrib pages as there are many useful add on applications.
Even read Howtos and Contribs wiki articles that you are not interested in, as they give wonderful clues as to approaches to take when making customisations to your server.
Try to keep your sme server as "bog standard" as possible, as you will have less hassles when upgrading. Preferably use only customisations that are well proven and available on the contribs.org site. Install less add on's rather than more, only install add on's that you absolutely need to have.
Make sure you have a functional backup system in place eg attached USB drive (formatted to ext3), and check your backup actually works, and ideally do a test restore to prove the whole backup/restore system works as expected, so it will do the job on that day somewhere in the future when you are really really dependant on getting you server up and running from a backup.
There is a default backup to workstation option based on dar, that will backup to a USB. Other backup options exist.
Donate something to contribs.org running cost.
Verify a bug or two for the next release ie sme8.
Have a reasonable & respectful attitude when using the forums.
Post bugs or potential bugs to bugzilla first (rather than the forums).
Have fun using sme !
PS Use sme8beta5 if your hardware is the latest and greatest