Thank you for your replies. To bring the SME server to run to the state it does today for me, took a good amount of searching and reading. I thought I was missing something simple (or build-in) here, that someone else will know and once I was in a hurry today I thought of asking. I admit that the answer came really fast.
Thank you again.
I am looking for something reliable (or as reliable as windows will allow), so if I manage to build something myself, I will post it here.