Thank you Stefano,
Here are sections from the log files,
boot.log (grabbed from putty)
Nov 6 12:30:33 lilliput-server sysctl: net.ipv4.tcp_syncookies = 1
Nov 6 12:30:33 lilliput-server network: Setting network parameters: succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:34 lilliput-server network: Bringing up loopback interface: succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:32 lilliput-server syslog: syslogd shutdown succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:36 lilliput-server network: Bringing up interface eth0: succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:38 lilliput-server network: Bringing up interface eth1: succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:38 lilliput-server wan: Starting wan succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:38 lilliput-server irqbalance: irqbalance startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:38 lilliput-server crond: crond startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:38 lilliput-server acpid: acpid startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server mysqld: Starting mysqld succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server dnscache: Starting dnscache succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server imap: Starting imap succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server imaps: Starting imaps succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server pop3: Starting pop3 succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server pop3s: Starting pop3s succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server tinydns: Starting tinydns succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:39 lilliput-server lpd: Starting lpd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:40 lilliput-server dhcpd: Starting dhcpd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:40 lilliput-server clamd: Starting clamd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:40 lilliput-server freshclam: Starting freshclam succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:40 lilliput-server ldap: Starting ldap succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:40 lilliput-server ntpd: Starting ntpd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:40 lilliput-server qmail: Starting qmail succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:40 lilliput-server qpsmtpd: Starting qpsmtpd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:41 lilliput-server sqpsmtpd: Starting sqpsmtpd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:43 lilliput-server sshd: Starting sshd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:45 lilliput-server httpd-admin: Starting httpd-admin succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:46 lilliput-server httpd-e-smith: Starting httpd-e-smith succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:47 lilliput-server pptpd: Starting pptpd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:48 lilliput-server radiusd: Starting radiusd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:48 lilliput-server smolt: succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:49 lilliput-server spamd: Starting spamd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:49 lilliput-server squid: Starting squid succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:49 lilliput-server nmbd: Starting nmbd succeeded
Nov 6 12:30:50 lilliput-server smbd: Starting smbd succeeded
Nov 6 12:31:22 lilliput-server atalk: atalkd startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:31:29 lilliput-server atalk: Registering lilliput-server:Workstation: succeeded
Nov 6 12:31:35 lilliput-server atalk: Registering lilliput-server:netatalk: succeeded
Nov 6 12:31:35 lilliput-server atalk: papd startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:31:35 lilliput-server atalk: cnid_metad startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:31:35 lilliput-server atalk: afpd startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:32:39 lilliput-server sark: asterisk startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:32:41 lilliput-server fop: op_server.pl startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:32:41 lilliput-server messagebus: messagebus startup succeeded
Nov 6 12:32:42 lilliput-server haldaemon: haldaemon startup succeeded
As you can see PPTPD starts ok....
and here is the messages log when I attempt a VPN connection from outside.
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server pptpd[18852]: CTRL: Client 86.19.143.110 control connection started
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server pptpd[18852]: CTRL: Starting call (launching pppd, opening GRE)
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: Plugin radius.so loaded.
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: RADIUS plugin initialized.
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: pppd 2.4.4 started by root, uid 0
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server kernel: divert: not allocating divert_blk for non-ethernet device ppp0
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: Using interface ppp0
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: Connect: ppp0 <--> /dev/pts/1
Nov 7 12:51:52 lilliput-server udevd[1218]: udev done!
Nov 7 12:52:22 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: LCP: timeout sending Config-Requests
Nov 7 12:52:29 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: Modem hangup
Nov 7 12:52:29 lilliput-server pptpd[18852]: CTRL: Reaping child PPP[18853]
Nov 7 12:52:29 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: Connection terminated.
Nov 7 12:52:29 lilliput-server kernel: divert: no divert_blk to free, ppp0 not ethernet
Nov 7 12:52:29 lilliput-server pppd[18853]: Exit.
Nov 7 12:52:29 lilliput-server pptpd[18852]: CTRL: Client 86.19.143.110 control connection finished
Nov 7 12:52:29 lilliput-server udevd[1218]: udev done!
So the request is still getting to the server, on the client screen it shows "verifying username and passwors" for a while then disconnects, some sites are reporting that it disconnects almost instantly
I hope someone sees something here I have missed!