@mik4 : With no information we can't really help you.
0) Could you access this video flux before installing SME server?
1) Could you tell us what kind of media server is your DVR : video streaming server, media center or another kind of media server
2) What is the protocol used : TCP/UDP, HTSP, RTP / SRTP / RTSP, RTMP /T/S/E, MPEG-TS / MTS / TS or MMS ?
3) What is the personal machine (OS) you are using to access this video flux (smartphone, pc, tablet)?
4) Did you give a permanent IP for all your machine in your LAN?
5) What is the software/viewer to access this video flux (XBMC, MythTV, VLC, Flash, M$ Media Center, etc...)?
6) What is your external IP, then we could watch your video for free

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Try to make it work in the lan and after open the service to the wan
1) you have to open port 7000 in your personal machine if you can
2) Port Forwarding
Why would u want to use PF, if your installation is like this :
external IP - Modem - 192.168.1.1 <--> 192.168.1.2 : eth1 - SME Server - eth0 : 192.168.200.1 <--> 192.168.200.4 - DVR
<--> 192.168.200.xxx - pc
<--> 192.168.200.xxx - Smartphone
But in this case, you can use port forwarding:
external IP - Modem - 192.168.1.1 <--> 192.168.1.2:7000 - SME Server - 192.168.200.1:7000 <--> 192.168.200.xxx - pc1
<--> 192.168.1.3:7000 - DVR <--> 192.168.200.xxx - pc2
<--> 192.168.200.xxx - Smartphone
or in this case (is it this one, really?):
192.168.1.1 - Modem - 192.168.200.xxx <--> 192.168.200.1:7000 - SME Server - 192.168.xxx.1:7000 <--> 192.168.xxx.xxx - pc1
<--> 192.168.200.4:7000 - DVR <--> 192.168.xxx.xxx - pc2
<--> 192.168.xxx.xxx - Smartphone
Xavier