jameswilson
Perhaps you should answer the questions/follow advices that RequestedDeletion, daniel & myself have put to you, rather than (apparently) ignoring them.
Where is the evidence or proof you have been exploited, it's a guess.
Seems more likely to me that something went wrong during the upgrade, or maybe you had settings in place that were not previously saved correctly (eg as custom templates).
There are many possibilities, guessing is not a good approach, search for information that will provide clues, & keep searching until you find it.
You could also do an external port scan (grc.com) to see what is open, but nothing is yet pointing at that as the problem source, all suggestions are just "process of elimination" techniques at present.
I get the same telnet response so that's normal enough.