Ok, wow I feel like a moron, I made TWO mistakes, the second is much larger. First off, on my network I showed, it IS a gateway/firewall, not a Hub. And the big mistake, which makes this whole topic useless, is that I went into the configuration setting on my server, so see what I could have messed up, and the domain name was set to wacomalt.local
so I changed that to wacomalt.com, and lo and behold, I can get to my wacomalt.com ANYWHERE.
thank you all for the help, it at least got me to where I needed to go to find that mistake.