Hey paulmancan2,
did we make sure of the simple stuff?
1). Do you have a static I.P.?
1a). If dynamic IP, is the <nameserver> getting change of IP from you?
2). Do you have a domain name?
3). Does the DNS resolve to your IP?
4). Does your ISP service block any ports?
5). Which ports are you forwarding?
6). Are you using an alternate port number for incoming www traffic?
Good luck.
Joe