Thank you meanpenguin,
I'll try that and see it works! I hope it does!

Charlie,
This is a Win2k3 machine running Oracle and some type of ASP service that can't be configured to use an outside SMTP to send confirmation emails when customers sign in, so I'm forced to use a local mail on it. The SMTP proxy is great, cause it gives me control of the mails.
I had this setup working before with the Nat 1:1 contrib, but that exposes the entire server... so if I can make the rules work with the SMTP proxy, I'll be gold.
Thanks guys!