Lional, Mary,
As far as I can tell, the Mega-100WR is a wireless modem/router. The RJ11 is the phone line IN. There are 4 x RJ45 10/100 Ethernet ports and a Wireless Access Point. This seems a typical set up being flogged (sorry, sold) in Australia at the moment. So, you could connect the SME and another 3 computers using cables - or add a 10/100 switch and have lots! Wireless, of course, is more limited since all PCs using the WAP share the bandwidth and cut it dramatically.
There should be nothing difficult or unusual in forwarding the ports from the modem/router to the SME box. Although, I must admit, it took me a little time to understand the manual for mine (a NETGEAR) regarding Port Forwarding. Still, one of the links I found for you shows you how.
Good luck
Ian