Follow up: i found in /var/log/qpsmtpd/current that the system sent some of the mailing mails but not all, im counting kinda 50 mails or so...i guess that some part of the system stopped the proccess at a certain point...ill try again in monday, dont want to storm my clients with mails...
Also i found that "u'\xe9'" means "í" and there was one missing to correct, ill report again if there is any unicode errors once i send another round but there is still the base problem, any1 can think of any solution? (other than not using personalization ofc)