If this is a fresh install, just use 5.1.2 until 5.5 gets straightened out. Also, swap out one of the 3Coms for a cheapo Linksys card and use the Linksys for your external interface, the drivers are completely different so SME won't get confused.
Lastly, turn OFF your cable modem for two hours, turn it on, let it connect, then turn on your newly-installed 5.1.2 box and you should be good to go after configuration (usually, for cable, DHCP w/MAC address).
Good luck!