the problems in question #3 is there again. i thought of putting the sme box's external ip then it worked normally.
its still carring its default hostname cs2.counterstrike-cafe.ph. then as you adviced, i changed the main domain name to arjay.com.ph, everything dont work again so i put it default domain name back again and everything seems back to normal.
then i tried to add arjay.com.ph as a virtual host... those said problems showed up once more so i deleted arjay.com.ph as virtual host and its back to normal.
so now can i conclude that the domain name you are adding should be the main domain name and it should be a virtual host either?
one problem though, if i browse to
www.arjay.com.ph using
www.megaproxy.com to see if its working... the answer is that it cannot resolve arjay.com.ph.

is this normal? should i wait for a little while for the dns to upade?
here is a part when i did a cat /var/log/messages:
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2374]: starting BIND 9.2.1 -f -u dns -t /home/dnsni\:3457\:respawn\:/usr/sbin/named -f -u dns -t /home/dns -c /etc/named.conf
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2374]: using 1 CPU
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2375]: starting BIND 9.2.1 -f -u dns -t /home/dns -c /etc/named-ext.conf
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2375]: using 1 CPU
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2381]: loading configuration from '/etc/named-ext.conf'
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: loading configuration from '/etc/named.conf'
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2381]: no IPv6 interfaces found
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: no IPv6 interfaces found
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2381]: listening on IPv4 interface eth1, 202.133.204.50#53
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: listening on IPv4 interface lo, 127.0.0.1#53
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2381]: command channel listening on 127.0.0.1#953
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2381]: zone arjay.com.ph/IN: has no NS records
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2381]: running
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: listening on IPv4 interface eth0, 192.168.2.59#53
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: couldn't add command channel 127.0.0.1#953: address in use
Aug 31 00:06:50 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: zone 0.0.127.in-addr.arpa/IN: loaded serial 1997022700
Aug 31 00:06:51 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: zone 2.168.192.in-addr.arpa/IN: loaded serial 2003083100
Aug 31 00:06:51 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: zone cs2.homelinux.com/IN: loaded serial 2003083100
Aug 31 00:06:51 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: zone localhost/IN: loaded serial 42
Aug 31 00:06:51 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: zone arjay.com.ph/IN: has no NS records
Aug 31 00:06:51 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: zone Cs2.CounterStrike-cafe.ph/IN: loaded serial 2003083100
Aug 31 00:06:51 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: running
> Aug 31 00:06:51 Cs2MainServer named[2378]: zone arjay.com.ph/IN: has no NS records <---- what does this mean?