filippoc
I think we have answered all question, but, if we didn't, just ask again.
Just answering questions & providing justification is not really sufficient, you are just saying "Here is why we did it".
That is certainly not the same thing as responding to comments & criticisms & making actual changes.
I cannot directly speak for others, but it does seem to me that Neth made many "big" changes, too many for existing users & developers to feel comfortable with.
Perhaps a slower rate of change, & more interaction with existing developers & users before making changes, was required.
But then you tried that a long time ago, & lack of response to your design goals & preferences are what caused you to decide to go it alone, & create Neth server.
If you want (or wanted) more support from the community, then I think you had to (or still have to) engage the community & accept their design input, you cannot expect people to go along with the Neth way of doing things, if it does not really suit or match or come close to, how they do things now. Change is great, but it has to be tempered & dished out in small doses to be palatable.
I guess that's why the community decided to create sme9, it is essentially the same thing as sme8, just using CentOS6, so no big design changes & no big design surprises. Simply said, no changes at all really.
I think I said it earlier, ultimately it's a choice for end users to go with Neth, or sme/Koozali or something else.
How do you get the community to be more involved with Neth & to merge with you.
I believe it was said in one of the mail list links you provided, revert many of your changes back to the old sme server way of doing things.
Carry on the tradition (which has good technical reasons for being followed), & implement changes slowly & gradually.
Is Neth prepared to revert many of the changes they have made & liaise much more agreeably with the community users & developers ?